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Guest Post: How Author Amulya Malladi Wrote Away Her Blues

June 7, 2016 12 Comments

When I’m fortunate enough to read a book that I’ve been asked to endorse, it’s always extra special to introduce that author here on WFW, so please welcome Amulya Malladi!

Amy xo

“How far would you go to have a family, and how far would you go to save the family you already have? In A House for Happy Mothers, Amulya Malladi skillfully and compassionately raises these questions in a story of two women yearning to protect their families. This is a thought-provoking, modern-day family saga set against the backdrop of traditional Indian and American maternal expectations.”—Amy Sue Nathan, author of The Good Neighbor and The Glass Wives

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How The Author of A HOUSE FOR HAPPY MOTHERS Wrote Away Her Blues

by Amulya Malladi

Book cover_webA few years ago, I became sad.

I stopped writing. This was no ordinary writer’s block; this was writer’s block stemming from having no feelings at all, an entirely different thing. I didn’t care much that I didn’t write. I was so miserable at my marketing day job that I had become indifferent to it. My marriage was not tip-top either because I hadn’t told my husband I was sad. I was faking it at home but invariably the cracks were showing.

I started writing when I was 11 years old. I can now look back and see that I started to write stories as a way to step away from real life into a fantasy world. I became an author to get away from a difficult childhood – and not because a story beckoned me and asked for it to be told. This is a pattern I have repeated my whole life to the point that in my heart, I know that if there isn’t a story that I’m working on, then I am miserable – by definition.

But this sadness I experienced a few years ago was different. It was the big bad black – the real thing – the nasty.

Part of the reason that I didn’t reach out to the writer within me was because the writer had stopped believing. My fifth book came out in 2007 and after that no one would buy my next book – not until eight years later. I work fulltime as a marketing executive and writing is hard work, so I told myself why should I do it? It doesn’t make me happy – because I have to face rejection and I don’t really have the time, do I?

Even though I turned my back on the writer within me, the storyteller still reached out to me in the darkness to draw me out. I know it sounds dramatic but really, it happened just like that.

My life was a mess. I was having exaggerated responses to everything. I was losing my temper. I was not sleeping. I was not eating. I cried uncontrollably at the drop of a hat. My emotions were everywhere. I knew I had to do some things on many fronts. First, I knew I had to change jobs. This job was making me miserable. So I did that. Second, I worked on my personal life. I have a very nice husband so that turned out to be easier than I feared. And third, I had to go back to a story. This was the hardest of the three. The one I did last.

It happened slowly and then all of a sudden.

One morning I woke up, hoping this day would be better than the previous one, knowing fully well that it wouldn’t be. The world was painted gray around me after all. But on this day, I realized that it wasn’t entirely true anymore – there was color in my life again. I was feeling better from a work perspective. My personal life was healthy again.

I for some reason started to think about the second law of thermodynamics that states, “Entropy or disorder in a closed system will either remain the same or increase.” And what happens when disorder goes out of control? The system implodes. That’s what happened to me, I thought. I was the closed system and my disorder became out of control.

So this morning, the morning I found the colored patches on the gray fabric of my life – I started to tell the story of a woman who had imploded. It started that simply. I knew her name was Sanya. I knew she was Indian. I knew she was temporarily in Copenhagen. I knew that her marriage was on the rocks. I knew that everything around her was painted gray.

As I wrote, I discovered that I was not going to let neither my world nor Sanya’s remain gray – so I started to paint patches of color onto her and my gray canvas with broad comedic strokes. I started to laugh as I wrote Sanya’s story of finding herself in gray Copenhagen.

As a rule I always read out what I write on a given day to my husband – he’s my first audience. As I wrote the first chapters, we both started laughing. I didn’t think this book would sell. I had sincerely believed at the time my career as a writer was over. I wrote this story purely for my pleasure, to make me laugh – to make me happy. It certainly did. I was entertained and curious to go on this ride with my slightly crazy character and as she found herself, I found myself as well. This story became The Copenhagen Affair, which will be my seventh book, published by Amazon Lake Union in 2017.

Author Amulya_webAmulya Malladi is not sad anymore – but living a full and colorful life in Copenhagen in Denmark where she lives with her husband and two sons. During her spare time she works fulltime as a marketing executive for a medical device company. Her latest book A House for Happy Mothers has just been released. You’re welcome to add color to her life by reading and reviewing her new book and by becoming part of her Facebook family or signing up for her newsletter at www.amulyamalladi.com.

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  1. Kat magendie says

    June 7, 2016 at 6:22 am

    I am going through the same thing! Five books and a novella pub’d since 2009, but then nothing. Nada. Stopped, and for the last 2 and a half, or more, years I have not written another book- barely written anything.

    I can feel my color coming back, so I’m hoping, like you, my words will come back. Because I miss it. It was always my Love. The One Constant in my life. The Existence of Me. The Who I Am at my Core. I won’t be human again until I write again.

    I hope your book flies off the shelves.

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    • Amulya says

      June 7, 2016 at 11:33 am

      Oh I do know how you feel!!! Here’s a virtual hug from someone who’s been there. You’ll rise above this. The writer in you won’t let you strat from your passion for long. My best wishes.

      Reply
  2. Holly Robinson says

    June 7, 2016 at 8:14 am

    Amulya, this is such a wonderful, heartfelt post. Even those of us who haven’t wrestled with depression and sadness experience so many crises in confidence when we write. We wonder whether the book we’re writing is any good, who will want it anyway, even if it gets published will it sell, etc. And then, when our book come out and start their tender new lives apart from us, we worry about them constantly: are they making friends? Do people like them? And we despair, despair, despair if it seems that nobody wants them–or us–anymore. It’s awful. Anyone who wants to be a writer should have her head examined. ON THE OTHER HAND, what joy and transformation there can be in the PROCESS of writing, on letting go and laughing at your own words–or crying, too–and on forgetting about the whole publishing end of things and just writing our damn hearts out. That is where the passion lies. As long as we’re writing for ourselves, who gives a damn about the Amazon trolls or sales figures? There is always a way to publish another book. And, again, the most important thing is that we keep writing and making our voices heard, adding to the vibrant cultural landscape. Congratulations, dear girl.

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    • Amulya says

      June 7, 2016 at 11:36 am

      Thank you, Holly. We write because we love it – we’d do it no matter if there was a contract at the end of the road. So, yes, let’s keep writing. Let’s keep our heart while.

      Reply
  3. Tiffany Yates Martin says

    June 7, 2016 at 10:31 am

    Love this post–beautiful and thoughtful way of describing something so common to so many–especially creatives. I can’t wait to read your latest!

    Reply
    • Amulya says

      June 7, 2016 at 11:36 am

      I hope you do!!! It would be wonderful to work with you again. Fingers crossed.

      Reply
  4. Gillian Andrews says

    June 7, 2016 at 10:50 am

    I was touched by your honesty. It is so essential to follow our bliss or our passion. Our inner selves demands it. It will not go away until we respond the the innate longing to that which makes us most happy. I’m so glad that you listened to what you needed, and then did something. I look forward to reading your book.

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    • Amulya says

      June 7, 2016 at 11:37 am

      Thank you, Gillian. I appreciate your kind words.

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  5. Joanne Tailele says

    June 7, 2016 at 11:27 am

    Love this Amy – and Amyula. I think we can all relate to the gray places in our life. I am glad you are back writing. Looking forward to reading The House of Happy Mothers. Wish it was on Audible.

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    • Amulya says

      June 7, 2016 at 11:40 am

      Thanks, Joanne. The book is available on Audible.
      http://www.amazon.com/House-Happy-Mothers-Novel/dp/B01EXJLPDY

      I hope you get a chance to listen to it and do let me know what you think.

      Reply
  6. Beth Havey says

    June 7, 2016 at 1:49 pm

    Awesome that courage and the love in your life got you back to writing and thus sharing with others. One of my novels, still unpublished, came out of some dark moments in my life. Living is living and fuels what we put on the page.

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