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Turning The Tables At Women's Fiction Writers: Author Eleanor Brown Interviews Amy Sue Nathan

May 16, 2013 Leave a Comment

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Can you believe it? I’m here on my own blog being interviewed by New York Times best selling author, Eleanor Brown, in celebration of publication of THE GLASS WIVES (available everywhere books are sold)!

I met Eleanor in 2011 at the Printer’s Row Lit Fest in Chicago. Since that day—when I was a fan-girl extraordinaire (just ask my dear friend and critique partner, Pamela Toler)—Eleanor has been a cheerleader of mine. I’m so honored she took the time out of her crazy-busy schedule to ask me amazing, thoughtful questions. And of course, if you haven’t read her NYT bestselling novel, The Weird Sisters, you should.

NowI have to welcome myself to Women’s Fiction Writers, don’t I? And I thought this week couldn’t get any more spectacular!

I know there are many, many lurkers out there (hundreds and hundreds of you). I hope you’ll step out of the cyber shadows today and say hello!

Amy xo

Turning The Tables At Women’s Fiction Writers: Author Eleanor Brown Interviews Amy Sue Nathan (Me!)

Pink/pink, blue/pink, or pink/blue. I think it's  the perfect cover for The Glass Wives.  Hope you agree! (If you've read it, or when you do, chime in!)
Available everywhere books are sold! (FINALLY!)

Eleanor: The premise of The Glass Wives caught me right away – bringing together an ex-wife and a current wife. Where did the idea come from?

Amy: From realizing—with much relief and satisfaction—that things in my life were not as bad as they could be. I had divorced, my ex-husband had died, and there was this nagging sensation that as a family, things just couldn’t get much worse. My kids didn’t have a dad, our sense of family and place and normal were turned upside down, we were dealing with grief and the everyday lives of kids, because they do intertwine. And then at some point I just wanted to feel like IT COULD BE WORSE. I guess I was just trying to make myself feel better. The idea of having a woman in the same basic situation as me—a suburban divorced mom, but giving her a slew of things I didn’t have to deal with, like—a trophy-wife/widow and needing her to move in in order to pay the bills, not to mention some not-very-well-meaning neighbors, and a know-it-all sister. I ended up relieved I was not Evie Glass—and with the idea for my novel.

Eleanor: I am fascinated by names and the way they help form who we are. The last name of both women in your novel is ‘Glass’ – what is the importance of that name in the context of the story? Do their first names have equal importance?

Amy: I wanted a Jewish name for the family since Jewish culture plays an important part in the story. But, I didn’t want anything too “-This-stein” or “-That-gold” or “Generic-ishkiwitz,” so I settled on Glass. The fact that Glass also connect transparency and fragility, well, I’d like to say it was intentional but it was more like besert (meant to be).

Eleanor: Even if I’m not aware of it at the time, I find I am writing to answer unanswerable questions in my own life, and those become the themes of the novel. What are the questions you wrote The Glass Wives to answer?

Amy: That’s easy. I wrote The Glass Wives to figure out what makes a family, and why some kinds of family are frowned upon or treated differently than others. While suburban single-mom family might not make headline news, as a single-mom who’s steeped in a white picket community, I know that I’ve been treated differently than married moms. Everything here revolved around moms AND dads, or couples. I was always grateful my daughter’s school didn’t have a daddy-daughter dance, but my daughter’s Sunday School class did start a father-daughter project. In a class where there were only a handful of students, in a small Jewish community, I found it disrespectful and disheartening and totally not kosher. It’s hard to convince yourself and your kids that your family isn’t one with a missing part when something like that happens. I’m sure it won’t surprise you that I spoke up. 😉 Writing the book reminded me to always view families without qualifiers or quantifiers and to be as inclusive as possible. Nobody’s perfect but we have to start somewhere.

Eleanor: I absolutely love the cover of The Glass Wives – it’s so eye-catching and evocative. How did you and your publisher come to that design?

Amy: When I met my editor last summer, I was fortunate to also meet my cover designer. The only thing I was stuck on was that the cover be reflective of the content. I didn’t want the cover to mislead the reader. And, though I never mentioned having a window on the cover, it’s what I always imagined. And the cups are perfect—literally because there’s a lot of coffee drinking going on, and metaphorically because there are many similarities between the women, but they’re also different.

Eleanor: Your work on the Women’s Fiction Writers blog and your freelance career make you seem enviably organized – is that true? Does it extend to your fiction writing?

Amy: I’m a list maker. I have weekly lists, daily lists, morning lists, grocery lists. Lists of calls to make, interviews to write, emails to send, bills to pay, friends to make plan with. And when it comes to fiction writing, that’s on the list too. When I get into the writing, now that I have an outline to guide me, I guess it makes me comfortable because guess what? It looks like a list! I do list characters and things I want to accomplish in a scene. I figure the more I write my lists, the less I have to actually remember. As long as I remember where my lists are!

Eleanor: I spent the month leading up to my publication date waking up every night with terrible stomachaches from the anxiety. You’ve interviewed so many writers here on the Women’s Fiction Writers blog – does that mean you’re feeling confident about stepping into author-hood? What have you learned from the people you’ve interviewed?

Amy: I’m comfortable in the author community. How could I not be? I have found authors to be welcoming and generous and inclusive (and not care if I’m a single mom). But confident? Not really. The publishing world is so noisy today, that it takes a lot for a book to rise above that noise, and especially for a brand new author voice to be heard. I know that, and it worries me. The way I allay my own fears is to do everything I can possibly do to get the word out. And to do that, you guessed it, I make lists.

The authors I’ve interviewed have taught me many things—mostly that generosity is common among authors and that there is no one way to write a novel. Whether someone writes a book in three months, or ten years, uses an outline or dictates or writes everything long hand, we all have one thing in common. We are storytellers using written words. It connects us to each other and to our readers.

And authors have taught me another important lesson—to give back with gusto.

Eleanor: Are you part of a community of writers, formal or informal? What has that done for you?

Amy: Being part of writer groups has taught me more than I could have learned on my own. Ever. I’ve been a member of Backspace since 2007, and I was always taking online workshops which become temporary communities of their own. As a debut author I’m part of The Debutante Ball. The support of the other four “Debs” is fabulous. I’m part of a group of debut authors called Book Pregnant. More than anything it’s online author therapy without the couch or a bill. Some of those authors have become dear friends. I’m also active on Writer Unboxed Facebook Group and the new Women’s Fiction Writers Association. Add to all that the fact that this blog has taken on a life of its own and created a community as well.

Eleanor: Your editor, Brenda Copeland, is so lovely on Twitter, and has such incredible authors on her list. What’s it been like working with her?

Amy: Working with Brenda has taught me more about my own writing than anyone else. Making me the best writer I can be is what makes her a great editor. She makes me get under my own skin, if that makes sense. Brenda is also very funny (as I’m sure you’ve surmised) so amidst the formalities and editorial notes and deadlines, there have been a lot of laughs. Her confidence in me has been both humbling and motivating.

As has this interview, Eleanor. Thank you! xo

Now WFW readers, it’s your turn! Ask away!

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  1. cheryl koshuta says

    May 16, 2013 at 1:03 am

    Your interview was fantastic on many levels. Your honesty, vulnerability, and humor come through so authentically. I also love the cover of your book and can’t wait to read it. Thanks for your wonderful blog–it’s one that I always read top to bottom and can only hope that mine is half as engaging some day. Congratulations on the publication of The Glass Wives. I love the double meaning in the title.

    Reply
  2. Lori Nelson Spielman says

    May 16, 2013 at 5:26 am

    It’s wonderful to see you on this side of the interview, Amy. Congratulations! (Great interview, Eleanor!)

    Reply
  3. Helen W. Mallon says

    May 16, 2013 at 6:27 am

    Hi, Amy, I’m new to your site, but I love it. I hope to be in your shoes before too long. Question: Did you query a lot of agents? Do you have any advice about a winning pitch?
    Best of luck with your book! Will tweet this interview.

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    • Amy Sue Nathan says

      May 16, 2013 at 6:29 am

      Welcome, Helen! I queried about 116 agents over 10 months before signing with my agent. No real advice on a winning pitch except that it has to be the frontman for a winning book, right? Good luck!

      ~ Amy

      Reply
  4. Michelle James says

    May 16, 2013 at 7:16 am

    Amy, this was a great interview and answered so many questions about how you came about developing the story, the characters, and starting your writing career. Enjoy reading of word, and of course, by now you are well aware I am a big fan of THE GLASS WIVES.
    Best wishes for continued success.

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    • Amy Sue Nathan says

      May 16, 2013 at 7:25 am

      Thank you so much, Michelle! I know you’ve read an advance copy, but if you take a peek (in a store? shh!) at the back of the paperback, there’s “supplemental material” you might enjoy. An interview with me, and a personal essay which explains the story behind the story. If you are able to read those, let me know what you think. xo

      Reply
  5. Catherine says

    May 16, 2013 at 7:26 am

    What a great interview! And welcome to authorhood! You’re right Amy, you’ve been in the hood for a long time, and you have also shown me how warm people can be, and how willing other authors are to give back. I’m interested in your subject matter, being a single mother of four kids – with two different dads. You can imagine how it has been in traditional northern Italy! Amazingly, one of the most tolerant people I have come across is my eighty-year-old (ex – are they ever ex?) mother-in-law. Very best wishes to you xxcatherine

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    • Amy Sue Nathan says

      May 16, 2013 at 7:43 am

      Thank you, Catherine. I know that while it’s supposed to be okay to be a single mom, it’s really still not quite okay with most people. Oh well. I have other things to worry about. xoxo

      Reply
  6. Densie Webb says

    May 16, 2013 at 8:00 am

    Turning the tables—what a great idea. Nice to get a peek inside your head about the story behind the story!

    Reply
    • Amy Sue Nathan says

      May 16, 2013 at 8:38 am

      Densie, thank you! Did you send me an email yesterday? I am looking and can’t find it in my inbox. Let me know?

      Reply
  7. Erika Marks says

    May 16, 2013 at 8:24 am

    So clever! Fun to visit with two ladies (and Debs!) I am very fond of:) Hope this week continues to rock your world, Amy dear!

    Reply
    • Amy Sue Nathan says

      May 16, 2013 at 8:38 am

      So glad you liked it, Erika. It is fun to be on the other side of the table on my own blog! LOL.

      Reply
  8. Laura Amos (@LauraRaeAmos) says

    May 16, 2013 at 8:43 am

    Congrats on your debut, Amy! I loved the interview, and I’m looking forward to the book! 🙂

    Reply
  9. Zan Marie says

    May 16, 2013 at 8:47 am

    Great interview! I do hope I can live up to this standard with my own interview of you soon. ; )

    Reply
  10. Jolina Petersheim says

    May 16, 2013 at 9:14 am

    Wonderful interview between two talented authors. So nice to see you both in one place. This is my favorite line, Amy, and I believe it’s what propells all great familial-based writing: “I wrote The Glass Wives to figure out what makes a family, and why some kinds of family are frowned upon or treated differently than others.”

    Can’t wait to read The Glass Wives! Thank you for writing it!

    Reply
  11. Kelly says

    May 16, 2013 at 9:15 am

    Great interview! Hooray for wacky families and speaking up for your kids, no matter the hand you’re dealt. Evie (and you) are inspiring! xx

    Reply
  12. Holly Robinson says

    May 16, 2013 at 10:25 am

    Amy, I feel so very honored to be part of your community of writers–even more so now that I read this incredible interview. I think I might even have to start making lists, after seeing what lists have done for YOU! You deserve every kind of success, because you have been incredibly generous and warm with all of the writers in your world. Your children must be about the luckiest kids on earth to have you as a mom, too. I can’t wait to read Glass Wives! And to meet you in Chicago! Wow!

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  13. Liz Flaherty says

    May 16, 2013 at 11:46 am

    Great interview. I am SO enjoying the book. It’s on my KIndle, and I’m pacing out–I’ll read a chapter whenever I go into the house from my office. However, I seem to be going in a whole lot more the last few days….

    Good luck. I hope it sells a gazillion.

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    • Amy Sue Nathan says

      May 16, 2013 at 5:07 pm

      Thanks, Liz. That means a lot to me. xo

      Reply
  14. Cerrissa Kim says

    May 16, 2013 at 12:18 pm

    Amy,
    Thank you for all you do for WF writers, both published and aspiring! It’s wonderful to see you being interviewed by one of your favorite authors. Your personal story just demonstrates how life’s dramatic changes can bring us challenges and amazing rewards. Your query process sounds intense, it would be interesting to learn more about the types of feedback you got from agents and how you ultimately decided to choose the one you have.

    One last note, I’d love to attend a WF writing conference. Do you think there might be enough interest to get something started? I’m going to pose the same question to Therese Walsh and see what she says. I’d be up for helping to organize something if enough people feel they would benefit from it.

    Your book is still on my nightstand, waiting patiently. I’m finishing up revisions of my book “The Grace of Kimchi” so it can go out for beta testing so I haven’t had time to read it yet. Every time I read one of your interviews, it makes your novel even more enticing!

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    • Amy Sue Nathan says

      May 16, 2013 at 5:07 pm

      Thank you so much, Cerrissa Kim!!

      Reply
  15. Melissa Crytzer Fry says

    May 16, 2013 at 6:19 pm

    Fabulous interview, Eleanor and Amy! I laughed particularly hard at the “list-making” comment. My sister-in-law, whom I love, is Puerto Rican and has this saying that “White women make lists!” She is 20 years older than me, and yes, she can go the grocery store without a list (The mere thought of it sends me into a panic, frankly). So let’s here it for list makers, and OF COURSE, for your big debut! Woo hoo! You’ve done it!

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  16. Natalia Sylvester (@NataliaSylv) says

    May 17, 2013 at 12:48 am

    What a special treat to have two such wonderful authors in one post! Thank you for the great interview, Eleanor, and Amy, what can I say?! It’s been SUCH an honor and inspiration to watch this journey unfold for you through Twitter, your blog, Backspace, and all the other amazing communities I’ve had the pleasure of learning about thanks to you. I could not be happier for you on this special day (week, month, year!) as The Glass Wives launches!

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  17. Blond Duck says

    May 17, 2013 at 7:55 am

    Congrats on your new book! As a fellow author, I have trouble marketing myself. How do you, as you said, ‘rise above the noise’ and let people know about your book?

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  18. Ginny McMath says

    May 20, 2013 at 3:51 pm

    I’m going to buy your book immediately! The power of getting through a situation that seems too unbearable shows such strength and is so helpful to so many women who think they will never be whole again. Thanks so much! I had a different but similar circumstance and I chose to write about it as well. Now on the other side of pain life is fun, funny, and happy again! 🙂 Ginny McMath
    http://www.amazon.com/Broken-Headbone-ebook/dp/B00CHB8RG4

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  19. girlparker says

    May 22, 2013 at 3:15 pm

    Super happy for you, Amy! You are a beautiful case of perseverance pays off. Your lists are humbling and motivating.

    Reply

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